Question by : Do you believe as a Christian , ideally, young people should have?
sex outside marriage. Do you believe it is ok to have a sense of humor
to laugh or joke with females in private when you all seem to have the same problem…being pretty much alone, poor?
I lived in very poor circumstances for a long time, in very poor housing. After I moved, someone said they thought the young people would be going into that house and making love. I was shocked when they thought it was
absolutely the worst thing in the world that I, and older woman, wanted to meet a nice man, date and remarry, not hve sex outside marriage or sleep around, but decently and in order.. I do not believe in having
sex outside marriage. I also do not think reading a book with sex in it is as bad as having sex with someone you ar enot married to, or another, because it does not involve r another human being. I do not read sexually explicit material, or watch it. I am speaking of my beliefs and asking the opinion of other
Christian Conservative “Fundamentalist Females. I have had nothing but filth and vulgarity and maltreatment from most men since I became alone 25 years ago, every where I moved to, from the same group of people. There must have been money in it for someone to go to such lengths of hatred to keep on harassing me like that…and it was the same people, same group, same M.O.
I do not believe in marrying for sex or only if it is good, or trying it out. What if something happens and one of them cannot have sex. Are they going to divorce. I do not think that waiting for marriage is being manipulative either.
I think GOD meant for women and men to wait for marrige.
I realize I am not going to date and marry. It is not going to happen.
I was wondering if other CHRISTIAN Conservative Fundamentalist FEMALES and males can share their views. I do not go around talking of sex in front of strange men. I have been treated horribly since being alone…this has gone on 25 years. I began by trying to go to Church and find CHristian singles as a
CHristian woman who had been married 20 years. I believed and believe I was eligible to remarry. I was so slandered, defamed, it was not possible. then I could never get any where that it was possible. Now I am old, fat, ugly and not well.
I wonder if the entire Christian Marriage “arena” has changed in the Christian community, was bad enough before. . Seems like to be that, an arena…of fighting, mud slinging, slander, defamation, degradation. People come into your home and insult you, strangers, workers can insult you, people you never knew. That is what I have experienced. FORGET IT. I have come to the conclusion all men are the same…when they get around a woman they do not know they are vulgar. It has nothing to do with their makeup. I dress conservatively, I do not dress indecently and my makeup is modest. I am older, and overweight. That is no excuse, nothing, absolutely nothing excuses men for talking to, acting like that toward women, they do it because that is what is in their hearts. Except for the past four years, I have been in good health for the past 25 years. I have not been intimate for 25 yrs. It has not been a problem. My husband and I did not divorce over sex, that was the least of it.
Best answer:
Answer by Angry Candy
I think sex before marriage is a terrible idea. If the relationship is based only on sex, it is a pointless relationship. Most people don’t get to know each other as a person anymore. It’s like they just pass each other around like a bong in a basement.
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